Building attunement culture, one engagement at a time.

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Philippe Lewis is a relationship educator, coach, and framework developer with over 23 years of teaching in intimacy, attachment, consent, shadow work, and conscious sexuality. He founded Exquisite ❦ Love as the home for his body of work — nine domains spanning relational dynamics, attachment theory, power and accountability, consent and attunement, shadow and healing, gender, consciousness, community, and epistemology — guiding people and communities toward an attunement culture. His teaching draws on attachment theory to guide people toward earned secure attachment and sovereign selfhood, and rests on a set of his own developed frameworks: Considerate Non-Monogamy (CNM), the Foundational Consent Sequence (attunement → connection → trust → consent), and the 7 Intelligences (emotional, physical, primal, social, spiritual, somatic, intellectual). His pedagogy is 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩, 𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙨𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙 — his frameworks offered as one possibility among many, with the real work being to help students articulate their own.

He is co-founder of The Journey to Secure at the Coming Home to Love retreat and the Secure Network membership community, and founder of the Open Relationship Community and the Attachment Community — spaces for the conversations that redefine cultural norms around connection. He produces conscious play and embodiment containers including Club Exotica, Love Underground, The Erotic Playground, and the FireLight 🔥 micro-festival near Yosemite, alongside The Somatic Playground — his on-going weekly class series in San Francisco and Oakland bringing local teachers with their own bodies of work supporting emotional, somatic, and primal intelligence — and Zoom workshops that keep the practice ongoing. His five core values — attunement, care, consideration, collaboration, and accountability — guide his work as teacher, partner, lover, leader, and facilitator, and are load-bearing across everything he builds.

A father to a 14-year-old, he treats that role as primary teaching material — the daily practice of surrendering to love, of being changed by another being, of meeting someone whose interiority remains, by definition, unknowable. His life's work is the slow labor of helping people meet each other more honestly: in the dance of difference, in the field of consent, in the both/and of needing each other and remaining sovereign.

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IG @scorpiodreaming & @exquisiteheartlove

On a mission to create more pleasure in the world that's rooted in deep community.

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Founder of Vanilla play parties and Pleasure School immersions.

At Transformational Nourishment, our mission is to translate vision into grounded, joyful kitchen systems—offering food as nourishment that supports the body, the team, and the transformational journey.

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Coco Cason is a Transformational Chef and Kitchen Manager devoted to creating nourishing, well-run spaces where teams thrive and people feel deeply cared for. With a strong background in management and over a decade immersed in Tantra and transformational work, she brings a rare blend of precision, intuition, and calm leadership to the kitchen. Coco listens deeply, tracking the subtle needs of a team or space, and translates vision into embodied action. Whether leading a kitchen or organizing transformational events, she creates systems that run smoothly and joyfully. She helps people use their unique gifts with ease, humor, and natural flow to deliver sustenance that is both grounding and inspired.

Weaving joy and love into our nourishment.

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Enki's life is dedicated to a vision of personal transformation and spiritual growth that embraces the entirety of human experience — from the darkest to the most sublime — with tenderness and play. He holds temple space for groups and individuals where everything from the rawest emotional process to the heights of ecstatic pleasure are welcomed and celebrated as access points to the divine. His work is informed by many lineages: from Zen to the Sufi mystics; Taoism to esoteric Tibetan Buddhism.

I create immersive environments that invite people to slow down, connect, and rediscover a sense of wonder.

Using light, sculpture, and interactive elements, my work transforms spaces into playful and meaningful experiences that bring people together.

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Erin St Blaine is a light artist, performer, and immersive environment designer based in Northern California. Her work combines sculpture, lighting, and interactive electronics to transform spaces into playful and magical environments. Erin has created installations and performances for festivals, museums, aquariums, and events across the U.S., and brings over a decade of experience in both producing art and supporting artists. At FireLight, she helps shape the visual atmosphere of the gathering and coordinates artists to create a beautiful, immersive experience for the community.

erinstblaine.com

@erinfirepixie (Instagram)

Francesca Gentille is a certified clinical sexologist, Passionate Monogamy and Conscious Non-Monogamy coach, as well as a Tantric BDSM educator presenting at international BDSM conferences, event spaces & dungeons in San Francisco, Montreal, Rome, Puerto Rico, London, Dublin, Brussels, New Orleans, New York, Miami, Amsterdam, and Prague. She is a leading expert in the therapeutic use of BDSM and Tantra in recovery from trauma. She has researched and presented on Sex Workers and their Clients at The American Association of Sex Eductors, Counselors and Therapists. She is a Professor at the International Institute of Clinical Sexology. She is the founder of The Inner Aspect Method of archetypal sexual empowerment, and the co-creator of Shamanic Kink ~ the transformational soul of BDSM.

Learn more at ShamanicKink.com

www.FrancescaGentille.com

IG: @francescagentille

FB: https://www.facebook.com/francesca.gentille/

My mission is to empower volunteers with clarity, care, and communication, helping create a smooth, supportive container for conscious play and community.

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I'm a Northern California creative who loves co-creating spaces where people feel at home. I'm drawn to ritual, music, and meaningful connection, and I believe small moments carry big magic. You'll usually find me brewing something warm and tending community wherever I am.