Attuned Spankings (& Impact Play)

It all begins slowly. Gently touching your person’s back and buttocks, feeling the response of their body, noticing muscle tone, softness and hardness, bones, skin… and sensations. As you attune and warm up their body to yours and yours to theirs, you begin to feel what they are feeling, delicately matching their nervous system, taking a hold of it with both hands, and guiding it on a ride to pleasure, intensity, and… subspace. Spanking, when done well, creates a deep bond of relating between spanker and spankee. Through warming them up, checking in, and connecting with their whole body, trust is established, and slowly but surely, every part of them relaxes, opens up, and allows you to create a journey of sensation and pleasure like they have never felt before. You know what you are doing, and you are doing it well. So well in fact, that they discover not only a new way to surrender, but also a new way to connect and be with you and with themselves. Join us for a class and learn one of the oldest forms of sensation play in the world. And though it’s also one of the most popular forms of punishment too, you’ll learn to reclaim it and offer it as a beautiful and rewarding experience.

Exploring the Values & Agreements

The vision for the agreements structure that allows everyone to play as safely as possible on the "playground" that each event creates. Playing on the playground is, however, not inherently safe. Join Philippe to dive deeper into how the values and agreements of FireLight, along with our few rules and policies, can help co-create a coherent field where we can all explore and play well together. He will also answer any questions you might have about how to use these structures with others at FireLight.

Primal Play Temple

For this temple, we explore the parts and archetypes of the inner animal, the body, the heart, the and the mind. In this context, the purpose of the mind is to watch for boundaries, the purpose of the heart is to stay connected, and the purpose of the body and inner animal are to play and roam free within the boundaries set by the mind and while the heart stays connected with those we play with. This way the inner animal can play uncontrolled much like children play together, for animals are very much like children: wild, and carefree. However even as we play we are still responsible, mature, aware adults who need to bring full attunement, consent, care, and consideration to the other adults we play with, even if non-verbally. This is how we safely play as and with our inner animals.

We will begin with a ritual to “transform” you into your inner sexy primal self to engage, play, and touch with your whole body and all your senses with those who are present around you in a special space called “The Arena”. The Arena will be a space for (mostly) non-verbal play as we want our minds to relax and give our bodies a chance to glow in their truest form of sensual/sexual/primal expression. There will be a secondary play space for other kinds of play and a social space to use words if you so desire for maximum consent, clarity, and connection! Clothes will be on where you prefer no direct touch, and hands will turn into "paws" to move around, not to feel or touch. We will also have watchers lovingly keeping an eye on the Arena to support greater safety and pleasure for everyone.

Mission

Hold the container for magic at this festival!

Mission

Set up volunteer shifts so we all have more time to sink into the experience!

Mission

As a Phoenix fae priestex, Firelight is calling me to bring my passion for living life fully into rituals of renewal that vibrantly connect us to ourselves, one another, the earth, & spirit.

Mission / Contact

Witness you and all of your magnificent presence